Healing a Broken Heart

DO watch your vocabulary.
We all have an internal conversation with ourselves. Since it shapes our outlook, be careful about the language you choose. Words like "nightmare," "terrible" and "horrible" are catastrophic terms. If you use them, you’re bound to spend time dwelling on the negative. Spend more time focusing on what you can do. 
 
DO define your real intentions.
Are you trying to move past the break-up, or are you hoping to get back with your ex? Define the emotional goal. You won’t move on until you’ve truly accepted that the relationship is over. 
 
DO allow yourself to own your feelings.
You can’t get over being hurt until you know you’ve been heard. Give yourself permission to express your anger, your sadness—whatever emotions you may be experiencing. It’s better to be angry with someone else than to blame yourself. 
 
DO learn to trust again.
Whenever you get involved in a relationship, you know there’s risk. Don’t let a bad experience keep you from living your life to the fullest. 

DON’T lose sight of what’s important.
Sometimes the relationship you need to rescue is the one with yourself. Moving past a breakup is all about you, not your ex. Don’t worry about becoming friends right away—if ever. You have to be your own friend first. 
 
DON’T get stuck.
Grief is a process to go through, not a destination in which to wallow. In a process, you keep putting one foot in front of the other. Days turn into weeks, weeks turn into months… each little step is part of the process of healing your heart. 
 
DON’T embarrass yourself.
Driving past your ex’s house, making dozens of phone calls, e-mailing non-stop…that’s not the way to let go of the past. Don’t get in a situation where you’ll look back someday and feel humiliated. 

LSS : the past

I was wrong when I hurt you
But did you have to hurt me too
Did you think revenge will make it better?
I don’t care about the past
I just want our love to last
There’s a way to bring us back together

CHORUS:
I must forgive you (I must forgive you)
You must forgive me too (we must have to try)
If we wanna try to put things back the way they used to be
(honey let’s start again)
‘Cause there’s no sense in going over and over
The same things as before
So let’s not bring the past back anymore
(no looking back, we can’t look back)
(honey let’s start again)

Out of all the good we had
You only keep track of the bad
Though you knew I never really loved her
Didn’t anyone tell you yet
That to forgive is to forget
How can you be mad if you don’t remember

CHORUS:
I must forgive you (I must forgive you)
You must forgive me too (we must have to try)
If we wanna try to put things back the way they used to be
(honey let’s start again)
‘Cause there’s no sense in going over and over
The same things as before
So let’s not bring the past back anymore
(no looking back, we can’t look back)
(honey let’s start again)

I must forgive you
And you must forgive me too
It’s the only thing that’s left that we haven’t try to do
One thing I’m sure will work
That we haven’t tried before
Let’s not bring the past back anymore
(no looking back, no looking back)
(honey let’s start again)

- the past, ray parker

happiest V-day

OH MY GOD…

right after I put in my entry about B**** not having a single romantic bone in his body, the office operator called me at 3AM saying that there’s somebody looking fr me at the lobby..

and there he is — all tired and sleepy with a bouquet of flowers in his hand!

all the while that we were texting that he is already home and is thinking of me, he was in Dangwa buying me flowers.

I really can’t believe it! I know he didnt have much money that day that’s why he made extra trips…and he spent the night’s earnings on my flowers…

im officially melted. to think na inaway away ko pa sya around 8 pm that night.

hayyy….i really love this guy sooooo much.

LSS : beautifully broken

It seems like yesterday that my world fell from the sky
It seems like yesterday I didn’t know how hard I could cry
It feels like tomorrow I may not get by
But I will try, I will try
Wipe the tears from my eyes

[Chorus]
I’m beautifully broken
And I don’t mind if you know it
I’m beautifully broken
And I don’t care if I show it

Everyday is a new day, I’m reminded of my past
Everytime there’s another storm I know that it won’t last
Every moment I’m filled with hope cause I get another chance
But I will try, I will try
Got nothing left to hide

[Chorus]
I’m beautifully broken
And I don’t mind if you know it
I’m beautifully broken
And I don’t care if I show it

Without the highs and the lows
Where would we go
Where would we go…

[Chorus]
I’m beautifully broken
And I don’t mind if you know it
I’m beautifully broken
And I don’t care if I show it
Ohh….
I’m beautifully broken
I’m beautifully broken

I’m beautifully broken
And I don’t care if I show it

- beautifully broken, ashlee simpson

major ouch

When love sees nothing but pain for the person who truly loves you
When love consumes your whole being you shut off your world to your family and friends
When love is there but the hurting won’t stop
When love is just right there but you can’t shout to the whole world
When you’ve got tears of joy while others got tears of sorrow

See this is selfish love…gets you nowhere… leads to nowhere… rests nowhere and finds its place nowhere…